Published on April 15th, 2014 | by Enigma0
Top 3 Filipina Dating Sites
Comprehensive Filipina Dating Site Comparison
Online dating can come as a real shock to those of you from Western countries, where it’s filled with low-quality women and poor attitudes. Not only are Filipina dating sites brimming with attractive girls, they’re much more interested in talking and meeting. Especially considering many of the women on these sites are actively seeking or at least very open to foreigners and white men, even if you’re older.
That doesn’t mean online dating in the Philippines is without it’s frustrations and difficulties, however. To help you get off on the right foot, I’ll be breaking down and comparing the country’s three biggest dating sites. Ultimately, they’re all worth using if time and money aren’t an issue, but some are definitely much better than others.
1. Filipino Cupid | www.filipinocupid.com
The top dog among Filipino dating sites, Filipino Cupid simply blows the competition out of the water in several ways. The site is well-designed, responsive, and intuitive, making it a pleasure to use. You may be familiar with it already if you’ve used any of their other successful line of Cupid sites.
Messaging is quick, searches are easy, and it has a feature I’m very fond of, which is the ability to view a girl’s pics and profile descriptions without actually visiting her page. This not only saves time and bandwidth, it ensures she’s not inundated with profile views and starts getting the wrong impression. FC’s chat feature is also integrated into the site much better than Blossom’s, though you do have to be a platinum member to initiate an IM session.
Speaking of, Cupid differentiates itself from the other sites with it’s three tier membership system, one of which is free. As a guy, you’re definitely going to want the platinum package because the more basic free and gold tiers are simply too stripped down to be nearly as effective. But girls who join free can still receive and reply to your messages and chats, meaning there’s an absolutely massive pool of eligible ladies to dig through.
Since guys who joined for free have so many restrictions on who they can message, you also benefit from less competition and women who are much more likely to reply. Plus, platinum and gold members get their profiles featured higher and more prominently in the search results.
Bottom line: With vastly superior functionality and a seemingly endless supply of attractive Filipinas, Filipino Cupid wins our site comparison hands down. This is $10 to $30 a month you definitely won’t regret.
Pro-tip: Only platinum members are able to initiate an instant messaging session, so don’t forget to use this to your advantage.
2. Date in Asia | www.dateinasia.com
Date in Asia is the only site on our list that’s completely free. This has both it’s advantages and disadvantages. The first perk being, well, you don’t have to pay any money. Also, the lowered barrier of entry means there are plenty of girls to choose from, though the mixture of women from different countries can be confusing.
On the other hand, they’ve invested less into their search and tend to be more flaky as a result. It also brings more competition. The women here simply get spammed with so many messages that it’s tough just to get a response to your initial greeting. About 75% of my attempts to start a conversation go unanswered, while the percentages are flipped on Filipino Cupid. And I’ve had more girls “show interest” in half an hour on FC than I have over a period of several months on DIA.
Plus, it’s the only one of the three without a chat feature. Yet another drawback is only being able include one picture on your profile. This gives you less chance to show value on your end and makes it more important to do your due diligence to avoid girls who look nothing like their photo. This is even more dangerous given the higher number of ladyboys lurking on the site.
Bottom line: Despite numerous drawbacks, including how tough it can be to get noticed by anyone other than the multitude of transvestites, it is totally free and I’ve still managed to find some of my favorite girls here.
Pro-tip: Pay close attention to the join date on a girl’s profile and go for the girls who joined most recently, as they’ll be less jaded by the huge amounts of attention.
Bringing up the rear of the bunch is Cherry Blossoms. Starting with what they do right, one of my favorite things about Blossoms is that they show you how many times a particular girl has viewed your profile, which is really useful for gauging interest. They also have a chat feature that every member can use to instant message other users who are online. This definitely comes in handy. First of all, most girls on the site check their accounts so infrequently that it can take you weeks to exchange a few messages.
This is even more frustrating considering the girls on Blossoms are a bit more conservative and relationship oriented than the other sites, meaning they require a little more back and forth before you can get their number. Even if you do catch them when they’re online, the site’s so poorly designed and unresponsive that it’s a pain getting a real conversation going through standard messages. So, if you have the opportunity, make sure to take advantage of the “chat now” feature to bypass the headaches and waiting.
Bottom line: Less girls, less active, and a terrible site design makes this one a hard sell at up to $30 a month. That being said, there are still girls to be found, especially if you’re looking for something more serious.
Pro-tip: Take things slightly slower with the girls on Blossoms, but help the conversation along by using the chat feature whenever possible.
Filipina Dating – Meeting Women Online in the Philippines
If you’re looking for thin, attractive women who are eager to meet someone just like you, I know just the place. Whether you’re searching for your loyal future wife, a girlfriend that knows how to treat a man, or just a night of fun with someone sweet and sexy, you can’t go wrong by choosing the Philippines. In this article, I’m going to break down 5 reasons to book your flight today.
1. Friendly and Welcoming
There may not be another country or culture in the world where the women you meet online or in public will be as friendly and open as the girls in the Philippines. The average Filipina is at least open to a relationship with a white foreigner, if not actively pursuing one. This goes double for the ones you find online. Not only will they respond to your messages, many will actually contact you first.
And it’s not just the women either. The guys are generally very friendly too and always willing to talk or answer questions. Keep in mind, however, that Filipinos can be shy and reserved when they first meet you, especially if they’re from an area that doesn’t see as many tourists passing through. You’re also likely to get some stares. Don’t confuse their reservedness or intense interest for rudeness, just break the ice with a smile or hello.
2. Easy On the Eyes
The Philippine’s unique blend of Asian and Spanish ancestry displays itself in the food, culture, and women. Scrolling through your dating site of choice, you’ll see tons of pretty and exotic faces. In general, most Filipinas have rounder eyes and wider noses than their Thai or Chinese cousins. Many have full lips that would give Latinas a run for their money. Speaking of, a few will surprise you with the type of ass you wouldn’t expect from an Asian.
Skin tones can very from fair to dark but one thing stays the same and that’s how thin they are. Most hover right below or at 100 lbs. Chubby Filipinas are rare and even the slightest amount of pudge is enough for a girl to call herself fat. Add that to the fact that most are barely over five feet tall and you’re left with some downright tiny women. If you’re average to small yourself or just love petite women, you’re in for a treat.
3. Caring and Accommodating
I grew up in the US, where I learned the importance of cleaning my house and room if there was even a chance I’d have a woman over. It’s the opposite in the Phils, where the average girl loves to take care of her guy and do your dishes. I once offered a girl water when she was visiting me in my condo. She texted me shortly after leaving to apologize for not cleaning the glass before she left.
Another girl jumped from my bed to stop me from rinsing my plate in the sink, insisting that she do it for me. I’ve dated American women for months without them cooking me so much as a bowl of ramen noodles. Yet there have been Filipinas who happily cooked for me on the first date. You’ll never feel as well taken care of as with a girlfriend from the Philippines.
4. Lower Language Barrier
Nearly all of the people you speak to in the Philippines will speak some English. Older cab drivers, for instance, may not understand much more than a few basic words but you’ll very rarely meet a girl who can’t at least have a basic conversation. They are taught in school from a young age and you’ll find some who speak it better than even the people in your own country.
Not only does this make day-to-day life way easier since you can do things like ask for directions or order food without as much hassle, it means almost no woman is off limits to you. If you see a girl you like online, send her a message in English without hesitation. That being said, Filipinos love it when you take an interest in their culture, so make the effort to learn a few simple words in Tagalog or one of the many dialects. It’s a quick way to get on their good side and it will get girls’ attention, too.
5. Conservative and Loyal
Sure, party girls are great for short flings when you’re young, but who really wants to get into a serious relationship with a wild woman that’s easy to get in bed. Filipinas are fairly reserved about sex. They lose their virginity later and have fewer partners than the women of other cultures. I was stunned when I found out a cute 23-year-old I met online was a virgin but she was only the first of several.
Another claimed she hadn’t even had her first kiss until she was 20. Girls you meet online will often be very shy about meeting you and often ask to bring a friend or relative along for the first face-to-face. But once a Filipina finds a man, she will do everything she can to hold onto him and make him happy.